Best Shining Nathan Podcasts (2025)

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EP 26 - How Nathan Created a Coaching Program INSIDE Oracle! 😲 47:14

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Hey there, my Shiny Minds! This episode is extra special because I’m joined by my dear friend and fellow light-bringer, Nathan Ohm: ICF, PCC: Professional Certified Coach, International Coaching Federation Licensed Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming® Senior Director of Finance, Oracle: Leads a global team of 50+ in sales compensation plan…

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Masculine Strength, Feminine Strength: What Your Personality Type Reveals About Both 14:49

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Here in this E + M mini, Christa explores the concepts of masculinity and femininity, as well as the tendency of certain types to lean toward different qualities, and how understanding this can transform your marriage dynamics. Learn which qualities come naturally to your type, which ones you might need to develop, and how accessing both strength a…

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The Allender Center's Rachael Clinton Chen, 2: Hope and Healing for Couples After Spiritual Trauma 47:41

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Join Christa for a crucial conversation with Rachel Clinton Chen, MDiv and faculty at The Allender Center, about spiritual abuse and its unique impact on marriages. Rachel brings both professional expertise and Type 2 heart-centered wisdom to this difficult but necessary topic. Discover how spiritual abuse differs from general church hurt, the spec…

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EP 25 - How Katerina's Striking Leadership Skills Turned Her Into A Global Change-maker! 51:14

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Hey there, my Shiny Minds! In this inspiring episode, meet Katerina Ambartsumyan—my former student who now leads the very class she took 6 years ago! She continued her journey with Neuro-Shine Technology™, earning multiple certifications and accreditations: - ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) - Licensed Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programmin…

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From The Chosen to Family Films: Nathan & D'Lytha Myers on Technology, Parenting, and Creative Collaboration, 4-5 Pairing 43:07

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Join us for an inspiring conversation with filmmakers Nathan (Type 4) and D'Lytha (Type 5) Myers as they share their unique journey of marriage, parenting, and creating meaningful entertainment together. Nathan, known for his work on The Chosen and now running Grafted Studios, brings passionate creativity, while D'Lytha offers thoughtful wisdom. To…

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Tenth Avenue North’s Mike Donehey, Type 4: Bringing Light to Dark Seasons of Life 44:37

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What does it mean to bring light to the darkest seasons of life and faith? In this deeply moving post-Father’s Day episode, Mike Donehey, lead singer of the reunited Tenth Avenue North, shares the heart behind their new album “Learning to Trust.” As a social Type 4 married to a Type 2, Mike demonstrates the courage to go to those dark feelings, sit…

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EP 24 - Gabriele Wasn’t Sure She’d Make It But… Now She’s Transforming Lives! 🌍 41:19

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My Dear Shiny Minds, get ready for a story that will light up your neurons! In Episode 24, I’m joined by Gabriele Hirsch—our most experienced Neuro-Shine Technology™ Faculty Trainer and a powerhouse of transformation. Credentials that back her brilliance: ✨Certified Professional Neuro-Shine Technology™ Coach (Academy of Neuro-Shine Technology™) ✨IC…

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When Emotions Are High: How to Self-Soothe in Relationships 14:42

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When emotions run high in relationships, knowing how to self-soothe can make the difference between connection and disconnection. In this practical mini-episode, we explore a few way each instinctual variant, Self-Preservation, Social, and Sexual/One-to-One, approaches calming when feelings are intense. We also break down a bit further to designate…

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Stories In Our Struggles: Terry Real's RLT Approach to Conflict with Zach Brittle, 8 (8-2 Pairing) 57:06

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What if the key to a stronger marriage isn't avoiding conflict, but learning to dig in and work through difficult moments? In this practical episode, marriage therapist and relational life therapist Zach Brittle, 8 brings over a decade of professional wisdom combined with personal insights from his Type 8-Type 2 marriage. Host of the popular Marria…

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EP 23 - How Kate Became a Neuro-Shine Technology™ Coach Educator in 6 Months! 🤯 46:42

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Hey there, Dear Shiny Minds! Are you ready for a Neuro-Shine Moment™ that could change the way you see your own potential? I’m beyond excited to share my latest Shiny Minds Show episode with you—because it’s all about what happens when you say YES to your curiosity and step into your power! Meet my guest, Kate O’Connell: ICF Associate Certified Coa…

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The Unfiltered Truth About Aging and Advocacy with Kathleen Henderson, 8 -9 pairing 54:20

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What does it mean to age with strength and wisdom? In this powerful episode, Kathleen Henderson, 8 (8-9 pairing) shares her honest journey and OR nursing background to help others through health challenges, empowering you to use your voice and your spouse through the seasons through health challenges and through the evolution of marriage in later s…

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The Beautiful Home Reset: Refining Your Spaces Together w/Whitney English, 4 54:05

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As we step into a summer of refinement here at Enneagram and Marriage, what better time to focus on creating homes that truly work for our families? In this insightful episode, interior design and home organization expert and author Whitney English, Type 4 (4-9 pairing) shares her room-by-room approach to creating spaces that are both beautiful and…

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EP 22 - How Coaching Transformed Matthew: From Student to Shiny Minds Faculty 50:03

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! This episode marks a milestone—I’m welcoming my very first guest ever on The Shiny Minds Show! Meet Matthew Porter: Licensed Psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience Certified Neuro-Shine Technology™ Coach ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) A proud faculty trainer at my Academy of Neuro-Shine Technology (ANST) Matth…

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AI in Your Marriage: For Better or for Worse 28:02

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Is artificial intelligence becoming the third party in your marriage? In this timely episode, we explore the growing trend of couples turning to AI for relationship advice, planning, and emotional processing. Based on survey data from real couples, Christa unpacks three major benefits AI brings to marriage—from vacation planning to communication to…

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Special: Author Kristen Strong (2-5 Pairing) on Friendship, Loneliness & the Courage to Try Again 50:09

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In this special Memorial Day episode, Enneagram Type 2 Kristen Strong shares her powerful journey as a social Enneagram 2 giver and also military wife who spent two decades moving across the world, constantly rebuilding friendships and community. Author of "Desperate Woman Seeks Friends," Kristen offers vulnerable insights into the acute loneliness…

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EP 21 - Why Positive Thinking Might Be Hurting Your Coaching Business (The Truth No One Talks About) 17:55

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! What if positive thinking is actually blocking your coaching business from growing? 😱 In this episode of The Shiny Minds Show, I, Dr. Shiny Unsal—creator of Neuro-Shine Technology™—am busting the myth that “just think positive” is always the answer. It’s time to get real about the dangers of toxic positivity and how avoiding…

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To Wholly Love Someone: The Healthy Practices We Need to Love More Fully 28:47

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What does it truly mean to love someone with your whole being? In this transformative episode, we explore the essential practices needed to move beyond surface-level connection into profound, soul-nourishing love. Drawing from both Enneagram wisdom and practical relationship insights, we unpack how your personality type influences your capacity for…

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Embracing Adventure & Partnership in Marriage w/Hillary McCaskey (8-9 Pairing) 54:06

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Influencer and Coach (Enneagram & Coaching) Hillary McCaskey, 9w8 joins Christa to explore how her Enneagram type shapes her marriage to an 8. Together they discuss how Hillary's 972 Tritype influences her ability to support her Type 8 husband's dreams while finding her own voice—culminating in both a healthier and more attuned marriage as well as …

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EP 20 - The Biggest Problem in Your Coaching Business 🤔 (And How to Fix It!) 26:10

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! Most coaches think their biggest challenge is finding clients—but I’m here to tell you, that’s NOT the real problem. In this episode of The Shiny Minds Show, I’m busting this common myth and revealing the REAL issue holding you back. After 15+ years of coaching, certifying leaders, and building my own business, I’ve uncovere…

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Enneagram Wing Influence: Understanding Subtle Differences 25:01

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Christa takes you on a journey through the subtle influences of Enneagram wings in marriage relationships. In this illuminating episode, she explores how our wing tendencies can sometimes take over our interactions with our spouse without us even realizing it. From the silent withdrawal of a 1w9 to the stubborn resistance of a 9w8, Christa breaks d…

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When Addiction Enters the Marriage: Jimmy & Irene Rollins (7-9) on Breaking Cycles & Finding Healing 52:52

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In this powerful episode, former megachurch pastors Jimmy and Irene Rollins share their raw journey from a marriage that was "surviving, not thriving" to genuine transformation after addiction threatened everything they'd built. For fifteen years, the couple maintained a thriving public ministry while privately struggling—Irene battling alcohol add…

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A Mother's Day Special: When You Thought It Would Be Better Than This w/Jessica Turner, Author, 8 27:05

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Just in time for Mother's Day, this special episode features Wall Street Journal bestselling author Jessica Turner sharing hard-earned wisdom about rebuilding when life veers dramatically off-script. Whether you didn't get to have kids, your marriage is different than what you wanted, or like Jessica, your marriage took a turn in a different direct…

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EP 19 - Why Your Mind Needs an Urgent 2025 Software Upgrade 🤖 25:15

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ Is Your Mindset Ready for the Fast-Paced World of 2025? The world is evolving at the speed of light, and technology is rewriting the rules of how we live, work, and connect. Are you keeping up, or are you already feeling left behind? In this episode of The Shiny Minds Show, I’m sharing why 2025 is your year to upgrade your…

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Strength in Surrender: A Type Eight's Guide to Vulnerability and Connection 14:51

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In this illuminating mini-episode for anyone who finds themselves in a reactive Enneagram Eight space, Christa unveils tools for finding and accessing the hidden vulnerability healthily beneath the Eight armor. Whether you're an Eight, have an Eight wing or arrow connection, or love someone with Eight energy, this episode offers crucial insights in…

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Beyond Stereotypes: Understanding The Higher-Desire Wife w/Author & Speaker J. Parker 47:24

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In today's episode, we challenge the common assumption that men always want more sex than women in marriage. Join us as we speak with J. Parker, author of "The Higher-Desire Wife," about the estimated 25% of marriages where wives have a higher sex drive at various seasons of marriage. We explore multiple causes of mismatched desire beyond stereotyp…

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EP 18 - Why Coaching Mindset Is NOT What You Think It Is 🙅🏻‍♀️ 28:01

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ Think coaching is about giving advice or fixing problems? Think again! In this episode of The Shiny Minds Show, I’m busting the three BIGGEST myths about coaching and showing you how to embrace a powerful coaching mindset. Here’s what we’ll uncover together: ❌ Myth #1: Coaching is about giving advice. ❌ Myth #2: Coaching i…

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The Dance of Connection: How Emotional Regulation Transforms Your Marriage 24:21

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In this stance episode, Christa helps you to explore how our emotional regulation patterns impact our closest relationships through the lens of stances. This episode dives into the three stress stances—moving against, moving away, and moving toward—and how understanding these unconscious reactions can transform your marriage. Whether you're caught …

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Underestimated: The Surprisingly Simple Shift to Quit Playing Small w/Mary Marantz, Type 4 (4-9 Pairing) 46:14

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It's all been done. I can't start until it's perfect. What if the critics come? In this episode, Christa talks with Mary Marantz, Enneagram 4, about her journey from growing up in a trailer in rural West Virginia to becoming a Yale Law graduate, successful entrepreneur, and author, only to learn she was still underestimating herself. This empowerin…

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EP 17 - Coaching Meets Spirituality: The Science of Aligning Mind & Heart 💜🧠 33:03

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ Coaching isn’t just about setting goals, and spirituality isn’t just about beliefs. They are so much more! Together, they create a magical synergy that can transform your life. ✨ In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of bridging science and spirituality, and I’ll show you how to align your mind, heart, and purpose. 💡 Her…

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Why Great Relationships Still Get Stuck: Moving Around the Enneagram 12:48

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Ever wonder why personal growth seems to follow predictable patterns of progress and plateau? In this illuminating episode, we dive into one of the Enneagram's most fascinating but rarely discussed aspects: moving around the whole Enneagram system. Learn how this powerful concept applies to everything from skill-building to relationship development…

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Engaging in Personal & Relationship Bible Study w/Philip Nation, VP & Publisher, Thomas Nelson , 4 35:27

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In this illuminating episode of the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, we welcome Philip Nation, Vice-President/Publisher of Thomas Nelson Bibles and acclaimed author (Enneagram 4) to explore the powerful intersection of faith, scripture study, and marital connection. Philip shares his expertise on making the Bible accessible in relationships, offerin…

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EP 16 - 5 Things I Wish I Had Known Before Starting My Coaching Business 🤔 👩‍💼 44:11

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ In this episode, I’m sharing 5 game-changing lessons I wish I knew before starting my coaching business! 🚀 If you’re dreaming of creating your own coaching business or scaling it to new heights, this episode is for YOU. 💡✨ 🎯 What You’ll Learn: Why coaching is NOT just a hobby—it’s a business! 💼 How to embrace perfection as…

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Holy Lament: Creating Space with God in Holy Week 10:53

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In this special mid-week mini episode, Christa explores the ancient practice of biblical lament as a pathway to deeper intimacy with God and our spouses. Discover why expressing honest sorrow and questions to God isn't just permitted but modeled throughout scripture—from the Psalms to Jesus himself on the cross. Learn how each Enneagram type bypass…

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Building a Thriving Marriage & Business with Brad and Sarah Johnson, 7-6 1:01:41

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In this engaging episode, Brad and Sarah Johnson, Triad Partners, reveal how life as an entrepreneurial couple (Brad is the co-founder of Triad Partners) creates both unique challenges and extraordinary strengths in their marriage, family, and business. Brad and Sarah (types 7 and 6 pairing) share candidly about their journey and deep dive with us …

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How To Get Unstuck In Difficult Conversations With Neuro-Shine Technology™ 18:35

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Hey there, Shiny Minds!🌟 Have you ever felt stuck in a difficult conversation, not knowing how to move forward? You're not alone, and I’ve got your back! In this episode, I share 3 simple yet powerful steps to help you break free and turn those uncomfortable moments into nourishing, truth-aligned connections. 💡💬 🎯 Here’s what you’ll learn: 🕵️‍♀️ Ho…

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Holding Vigil: The Sacred Arts of Prayer and Presence in Marriage 17:37

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In this heartfelt episode, discover the transformative power of "holding vigil" for your spouse through prayer and presence in a way that reallly costs, but also really gives, both to you and your spouse. Learn both general tips and how each Enneagram type uniquely supports their partner during difficult times and what challenges they face in stayi…

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The Cats of Ulthar by HP Lovecraft 12:16

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Shiningnathan reads you the tale of The Cats of Ulthar by HP Lovecraft. This is a delightful tale that is sure to bring you chills. To support: Patreon.com/shiningnathanBy Shining Nathan

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When Both Partners Carry the Mental Load: A Better Share with Dr. Morgan Cutlip 48:35

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Who can get in a sexy state of mind when they're dealing with the triple threat of emotional load, cognitive load, and the physical demands of partnership and parenting, too. Mental load inequity is now recognized as the leading source of relationship tension through research, but what can we do about that when not one but both partners feel equall…

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Think You’re a Good Listener? Think Again! 🧠✨ 3 Major Listening Blocks You Are Not Even Aware Of 25:26

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ In this episode, I’ll reveal the 3 major mental blocks (backed by NLP & neuroscience) that are stopping you from listening actively and connecting deeply: 1️⃣ Delete – Dismissing unspoken words and emotions 2️⃣ Distort – Tweaking what you hear to protect your ego 3️⃣ Assume – Creating false beliefs and making others “wrong…

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Beyond the Box: When You Don't Fit Just One Enneagram Type 22:18

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When your personality seems to straddle multiple Enneagram types, it can feel confusing or even invalidating. In this illuminating episode, we explore what it means when you identify strongly with two or more Enneagram patterns, referencing insights from Dr. Dan Siegel's previous conversation on the show. Discover why this "multi-type resonance" is…

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Finding Grace in the Mess: Dana K. White on Home Management and Spiritual Freedom 42:26

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Is a clean house a spiritual obligation? In this liberating conversation, Dana K. White, author of the brand new book, "Jesus Doesn't Care About Your Messy House," challenges the shame and spiritual baggage many attach to home management. This book is for you, if no matter how competent you feel in other parts of your life, you still feel overwhelm…

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Excuses vs. Success: The Choice Is Yours 💜 20:29

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ In this inspiring episode of The Shiny Minds Show, we're going to dive into the world of excuses—those sneaky stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck in our comfort zones and far from achieving our dreams. But here’s the truth: excuses are bustable! 💥 In this episode, I'll breakdown: ✨ The powerful formula for change:…

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When Anxiety Takes the Wheel: Understanding Your Type's Relationship with Fear 12:41

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How does your Enneagram type influence your experience of anxiety? In this insightful episode, we explore the unique ways each type encounters, processes, and responds to fear. Discover why Head types (5,6,7) intellectualize anxiety, Heart types (2,3,4) emotionalize it, and Body types (8,9,1) somaticize it—creating entirely different anxiety experi…

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Addiction in Relationships: How We All Heal Together w/Best-Selling Author Ian Cron, 4 46:14

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In this compelling conversation, bestselling author Ian Cron discusses his new book "The Fix," revealing how addiction in its many forms affects us all. Ian moves beyond stereotypical views of addiction to show how everyone struggles with attachments that promise fulfillment but ultimately leave us empty. With wisdom and compassion, he explains how…

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Why Blaming Holds You Back (And How To Break Free!) ✨ 21:21

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ In this episode, we are going to talk about the why blaming others or external circumstances might feel like a quick fix, but it’s actually holding you back. In this episode, I’ll break down: ✨ What blaming is and why we do it ✨ The psychology behind blaming (fear of failure, rejection, and societal conditioning) ✨ The hid…

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Book Review- Leviathans by Eoneth 6:51

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Shining Nathan gives a fun review of a new book by a small author by the name of Eoneth!! Book review of a Sci-fi fantasy book for you to enjoy. It's named Leviathans by Eoneth and I hope you enjoy. To get it for electronically: https://a.co/d/5mLM7wW To Support your gay auntie: Patreon.com/Shiningnathan #bookreview #smallauthor #smallbusiness #boo…

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The Alchemist by HP Lovecraft 29:58

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Shiningnathan reads you the tale of The Alchemist by HP Lovecraft. This is a delightful tale that is sure to bring you chills. To support: Patreon.com/shiningnathanBy Shining Nathan

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Building Internal Validation in Your Marriage: An E + M Mini 11:55

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In this transformative and quick episode, we walk together through several powerful practices to develop genuine internal validation. If you constantly seek others' approval or question your decisions, this episode is for you! Learn practical techniques to strengthen your self-trust and break the cycle of external validation right here. YouTube the…

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Beyond Self-Pres, Social & Sexual: A Fresh Take on Instincts That Drives You Forward w/Joel Hubbard & Jim Zartman w/Joel Hubbard & Jim Zartman, Art of Growth 1:05:13

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In this captivating episode, we're joined by Jim Zartman (Type 8) and Joel Hubbard (Type 7), creators of the groundbreaking Hunters, Farmers, and Teamers framework and book. This innovative lens reveals our survival instincts as well as helps us adapt in them, speaking of how our core drives shape everything from our leadership styles to our marria…

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#1 Problem In Decision Making (And How To Avoid It!) 35:04

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Hey there, Shiny Minds! ✨ In this episode, I'm going to share the 5 hidden mental blocks that could be sabotaging your decision-making and learn 5 powerful strategies to overcome them! 5 Mental Blocks in Decision-Making: 🤔 Comparisons: Measuring yourself against others, creating doubt and indecision. 🔍 Deletions: Filtering out important details and…