Navigating Motherhood after Loss with Liz Quinn
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In this deeply moving episode Nina is joined by Liz Quinn — grief advocate, and host of the Healing Hearts Podcast. Liz opens up about her personal journey through layered loss, including the death of her daughter Alivia, and both of her parents. With tenderness and clarity, she shares what it means to grieve as a mother, how guilt and love can coexist, and how the relationship with a child in spirit continues to evolve.
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The conversation also explores the experience of pregnancy after loss, the secondary grief felt by surviving children, and the often unseen labor of tending to grief while parenting. Liz also shares her journey through anticipatory and ambiguous grief as she lost her mother to Alzheimer’s and dementia, followed by the death of her father to esophageal cancer.
Nina and Liz offer insights into how one's healing journey can evolve into a purpose-driven mission, and emphasize the importance of storytelling and community in the grief process. This episode is a poignant reminder that grief is not something to fix — it’s something to honor, carry, and live with love.
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Takeaways:
- You don't necessarily feel like a mother when you don't have a child physically.
- The love for a child begins the moment you know they are yours.
- Grief is a journey that shapes who you are.
- Honoring lost children is a vital part of healing.
- It's okay to not want to hold a baby after loss.
- You either know or you just do it when it comes to having more children.
- Building a relationship with a child in spirit takes time.
- There is no right or wrong way to navigate grief.
- Sometimes, mothers know best when it comes to healing traditions.
- Support groups can be both helpful and challenging.
- Siblings can experience grief for a sibling they never met.
- The loss of a child reshapes family dynamics and identities.
- Transforming grief into purpose can lead to personal growth.
- Shared stories can initiate healing for both the storyteller and the listener.
- Grief is a lifelong journey that evolves over time.
- Life after loss can still be beautiful despite its challenges.
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Chapters
1. Preview & Intro song (00:00:00)
2. A 'perfect' pregnancy (00:01:00)
3. It was time to meet our daughter (00:06:00)
4. Letting her go (00:11:28)
5. Searching for answers (00:14:03)
6. Building a Relationship with a Child in Spirit (00:16:02)
7. Navigating Grief and Pregnancy After Loss (00:23:32)
8. Grieving a sibling you never met (00:29:09)
9. Losing both parents (00:30:43)
10. Transforming Grief into Purpose (00:41:00)
11. Honoring Bereaved Mothers and Shared Stories (00:45:50)
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