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0144 Female Led Relationships: What to Do When the Power Dynamic Feels Off in Your FLR
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Feeling stuck in a rut with your partner? You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And you don’t need to burn it all down to light a spark again.
This is one of those campfire-style chats, where I show up solo, pour some coffee, and talk about what happens when your relationship starts feeling… flat.
From missing the spark, to appreciating the little things, to being honest about when it’s time to plug back in (yes, that’s exactly what you think it means)—this one is real, raw, and might hit you right where you need it.
I dive into:
- Why reconnecting doesn’t require kink (but it helps 😉)
- The surprising power of gratitude in long-term FLR dynamics
- When to take the cage off—and how that can actually bring you closer
- How to tell the difference between a slump and a breaking point
- What it means to “plug back in” emotionally and physically
- And why it's okay to have hard talks and messy days in a deeply connected relationship
This isn’t about performing dominance. It’s about maintaining intimacy when life gets complicated—and that includes self-reflection, shitty weeks, and maybe crying over coffee.Timestamps (for the jumpers in the room):
- 00:00 – Camper life updates & tattoo plans
- 02:15 – Editing shoutouts, Canon camera chaos & OnlyFans behind-the-scenes
- 06:40 – Feeling disconnected? Here's what “flat” can look like
- 08:10 – A Healthline article sparks ideas on how to bring the spark back
- 10:45 – Writing down what your partner does right
- 14:20 – Gratitude in FLR: why saying thank you changes everything
- 19:
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They’ve got a chastity edition, a BDSM edition, and it’s all reasonably priced. I'm going to be talking about it more on the podcast! Go treat yourself: HERE!
Email Me! [email protected]
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Also, my psuedo-autobiographical audio drama podcast "Control" will "re-debut" this spring as we drop the entire first season exclusively on Patreon!
Keywords:
domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, ...
213 episodes
Manage episode 491625317 series 2800323
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!
Feeling stuck in a rut with your partner? You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And you don’t need to burn it all down to light a spark again.
This is one of those campfire-style chats, where I show up solo, pour some coffee, and talk about what happens when your relationship starts feeling… flat.
From missing the spark, to appreciating the little things, to being honest about when it’s time to plug back in (yes, that’s exactly what you think it means)—this one is real, raw, and might hit you right where you need it.
I dive into:
- Why reconnecting doesn’t require kink (but it helps 😉)
- The surprising power of gratitude in long-term FLR dynamics
- When to take the cage off—and how that can actually bring you closer
- How to tell the difference between a slump and a breaking point
- What it means to “plug back in” emotionally and physically
- And why it's okay to have hard talks and messy days in a deeply connected relationship
This isn’t about performing dominance. It’s about maintaining intimacy when life gets complicated—and that includes self-reflection, shitty weeks, and maybe crying over coffee.Timestamps (for the jumpers in the room):
- 00:00 – Camper life updates & tattoo plans
- 02:15 – Editing shoutouts, Canon camera chaos & OnlyFans behind-the-scenes
- 06:40 – Feeling disconnected? Here's what “flat” can look like
- 08:10 – A Healthline article sparks ideas on how to bring the spark back
- 10:45 – Writing down what your partner does right
- 14:20 – Gratitude in FLR: why saying thank you changes everything
- 19:
Get 30 Days of FREE Starlink!! (<<<<<
Lovense brings tech to the bedroom with high quality sex toys that can be controlled via bluetooth at close range, or through the app across the world!
Find out more HERE!
Oxy-Shop.com If you're feeling creatively blocked in the bedroom, Oxy-Shop.com has a game that I’m obsessed with. It's great for beginners and seasoned FLR couples alike—fun, spicy, and totally built for this lifestyle.
They’ve got a chastity edition, a BDSM edition, and it’s all reasonably priced. I'm going to be talking about it more on the podcast! Go treat yourself: HERE!
Email Me! [email protected]
Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Find my Patreon HERE!
Get 30 Days of FREE Starlink HIGH SPEED internet!! (<<<<<
Also, my psuedo-autobiographical audio drama podcast "Control" will "re-debut" this spring as we drop the entire first season exclusively on Patreon!
Keywords:
domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, ...
213 episodes
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