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In this episode of Love for Life, Nichole and Ben unpack the festive minefield of Christmas boundaries when in-laws expect unwavering compliance with their holiday traditions. The hosts dive deep into a listener's dilemma about wanting to create new Christmas traditions with her husband and daughter, only to face tears, guilt-trips, and accusations of "destroying the family" from her mother-in-law.

This isn't just about where to eat Christmas dinner, it's about autonomy, emotional manipulation, and whether couples can function as a united front or remain extensions of their families of origin. Nichole and Ben explore why research shows that couples who establish clear boundaries with extended family report 40% higher relationship satisfaction, and how healthy families adapt whilst rigid ones fracture. They tackle the deeper symbolism of being expected to sleep in childhood single beds, the emotional coercion behind phrases like "family is everything," and why choosing parents over partners repeatedly sends a dangerous message to your spouse.

Essential listening for anyone whose partner struggles to prioritise their nuclear family, anyone dealing with guilt-tripping in-laws, or couples navigating the tricky waters of holiday expectations. The hosts provide practical scripts for boundary-setting and explore why this Christmas conflict is actually a litmus test for the relationship's future. If you've ever felt like you're fighting for basic autonomy in your own family decisions, this episode offers the clarity and courage you need.

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