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Have you ever considered what makes a problem "real"? This week delivered a powerful lesson about perspective when two life-altering events struck within days of each other.
First, my son watched helplessly as his friend crashed on a motocross track, resulting in paralysis from the knees down. A 20-year-old engineering student's entire future changed in a fraction of a second. Then on my 47th birthday, I received my own devastating news—a diagnosis of retinal venous occlusion, requiring monthly injections directly into my eyeball to prevent blindness. The eye damage? A direct result of stress-induced high blood pressure from my law enforcement career.
These experiences crystallized a truth I've been learning: if you can throw money at something to fix it, it's not actually a problem—it's an inconvenience. The lawnmower breaking down, bills piling up, everyday frustrations we obsess over? They pale in comparison to life's genuine challenges that no amount of resources can simply undo.
What's struck me most is how difficult it remains for me to slow down and accept help. Even after therapy and healing from PTSD, I struggle tremendously with feeling "weak" when needing assistance. My nervous system is finally allowing me to feel emotions again—I cry freely now after years of emotional suppression—yet accepting vulnerability remains my greatest challenge.
These parallel crises have reinforced the importance of family and work-life balance above all else. My wife's unwavering support through decades of challenges has been my foundation. Without her faith in me and our relationship, my world would look completely different today.
Whether you're facing your own struggles or supporting someone through theirs, remember that showing emotion isn't weakness—it's your nervous system functioning properly. What challenges are you facing that money can't fix? I'd love to hear your thoughts on vulnerability and healing.

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