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Why Do We Ignore Red Flags? (2042)
Manage episode 477841308 series 1413441
Have you ever ignored a red flag because everything else felt so right? In today’s honest and eye-opening episode, Kevin and Alan unpack why we tend to overlook warning signs—especially when the “green flags” are shining bright. From painting red flags green to mistaking excitement for alignment, they share personal stories, tough lessons, and the power of knowing your core values. Whether you’re navigating love, friendships, or business, this conversation will help you stop settling and start choosing better.
Learn more about:
Next Level Dreamliner - https://a.co/d/9fPpxEt
Next Level Book Club - https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-book-club/
_____________________
NLU is not just a podcast; it’s a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey.
For more information, please check out our website at the link below. 👇
Website 💻 http://www.nextleveluniverse.com
_______________________
We love connecting with you guys! Reach out on Instagram, Facebook, or via email. We’re here to support you in your personal and professional development journey.
Instagram 📷
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/
Facebook ✍
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/
Email 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
LinkedIn ✍
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/
_______________________
Show notes:
(2:04) Settling due to loneliness
(3:07) Belief and self-worth issues
(4:15) Painting red flags green
(5:21) Compatibility Vs. Chemistry
(11:00) Trauma bonding and identity
(14:04) Finding your “absolutely people”
(16:59) At NLU, your success matters. Join our Monthly Meet-up—first Thursdays at 5 PM! https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/
(18:19) Rock bottom as a wake-up call
(25:30) Hoping someone will save you
(28:37) Why “agree to disagree” doesn’t work
(30:06) Drinking to force compatibility
(31:32) Outro
Chapters
1. Why Do We Ignore Red Flags? (2042) (00:00:00)
2. Settling due to loneliness (00:02:04)
3. Belief and self-worth issues (00:03:07)
4. Painting red flags green (00:04:15)
5. Compatibility Vs. Chemistry (00:05:21)
6. Trauma bonding and identity (00:11:00)
7. Finding your “absolutely people” (00:14:04)
8. At NLU, your success matters. Join our Monthly Meet-up—first Thursdays at 5 PM! (00:16:59)
9. Rock bottom as a wake-up call (00:18:19)
10. Hoping someone will save you (00:25:30)
11. Why “agree to disagree” doesn’t work (00:28:37)
12. Drinking to force compatibility (00:30:06)
13. Outro (00:31:32)
1038 episodes
Manage episode 477841308 series 1413441
Have you ever ignored a red flag because everything else felt so right? In today’s honest and eye-opening episode, Kevin and Alan unpack why we tend to overlook warning signs—especially when the “green flags” are shining bright. From painting red flags green to mistaking excitement for alignment, they share personal stories, tough lessons, and the power of knowing your core values. Whether you’re navigating love, friendships, or business, this conversation will help you stop settling and start choosing better.
Learn more about:
Next Level Dreamliner - https://a.co/d/9fPpxEt
Next Level Book Club - https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-book-club/
_____________________
NLU is not just a podcast; it’s a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey.
For more information, please check out our website at the link below. 👇
Website 💻 http://www.nextleveluniverse.com
_______________________
We love connecting with you guys! Reach out on Instagram, Facebook, or via email. We’re here to support you in your personal and professional development journey.
Instagram 📷
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/
Facebook ✍
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/
Email 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
LinkedIn ✍
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/
_______________________
Show notes:
(2:04) Settling due to loneliness
(3:07) Belief and self-worth issues
(4:15) Painting red flags green
(5:21) Compatibility Vs. Chemistry
(11:00) Trauma bonding and identity
(14:04) Finding your “absolutely people”
(16:59) At NLU, your success matters. Join our Monthly Meet-up—first Thursdays at 5 PM! https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/
(18:19) Rock bottom as a wake-up call
(25:30) Hoping someone will save you
(28:37) Why “agree to disagree” doesn’t work
(30:06) Drinking to force compatibility
(31:32) Outro
Chapters
1. Why Do We Ignore Red Flags? (2042) (00:00:00)
2. Settling due to loneliness (00:02:04)
3. Belief and self-worth issues (00:03:07)
4. Painting red flags green (00:04:15)
5. Compatibility Vs. Chemistry (00:05:21)
6. Trauma bonding and identity (00:11:00)
7. Finding your “absolutely people” (00:14:04)
8. At NLU, your success matters. Join our Monthly Meet-up—first Thursdays at 5 PM! (00:16:59)
9. Rock bottom as a wake-up call (00:18:19)
10. Hoping someone will save you (00:25:30)
11. Why “agree to disagree” doesn’t work (00:28:37)
12. Drinking to force compatibility (00:30:06)
13. Outro (00:31:32)
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