Dating today feels more complicated than ever—apps, endless choices, and blurred intentions. In this episode, Chloe and Dagmar get real about the stages of dating, from setting boundaries early to recognizing red flags, intimacy, chemistry, and learning to date yourself first. With stories from their own experiences, this raw and funny conversation empowers you to bring more clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your dating life—whether you’re in your 20s, 50s, or anywhere in between.

✨ Takeaways

• Dating without clarity leads to overwhelm — know what you want before you begin.
• Too many options (apps, DMs, profiles) make it harder to focus and build true connection.
• Intimacy starts with emotional and spiritual connection, not just physical attraction.
• Confidence is sexy: when you’re secure in yourself, you naturally attract better partners.
• Moving slower gives you time to evaluate compatibility on deeper levels.
• Red flags in the early stages are real indicators of future problems — don’t ignore them.
• Dating yourself first builds confidence, independence, and stronger boundaries.
• Compatibility isn’t just about chemistry — values, goals, and lifestyle must align.

📌 Timestamps & Chapters

00:00 – Intro & shoutout to male listeners
02:00 – Why stages of dating spark anxiety
06:00 – Dating with intention vs. dating for distraction
10:50 – Dating in your 50s vs. your 20s
13:30 – Men’s expectations & women’s boundaries
15:20 – Chemistry vs. compatibility
20:00 – Redefining intimacy & love languages
25:00 – Old-school dating vs. Instagram DMs
27:00 – Date yourself first (the ultimate stage)
29:00 – Closing thoughts & coaching invites

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