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Two therapists unpack how everyday wounds become adult attachment patterns and how EMDR, repair, and boundaries build secure love. Ashley Zarmanian shares her story of caretaking, anxious–avoidant dynamics, and parenting as a model for repair and growth.

  • defining developmental trauma and its everyday forms
  • mapping secure, anxious, avoidant and disorganized attachment
  • the anxious–avoidant dance and how to interrupt it
  • EMDR timelines and reprocessing to reduce triggers
  • corrective experiences and therapeutic boundaries
  • core beliefs, reparenting and realistic affirmations
  • dating patterns fueled by caretaking and codependency
  • parenting through repair, not perfection
  • books and resources on attachment and trauma
  • where to find Mangrove Therapy Group

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Guest: Ashley Zarmanian, MA, LMHC, EDIT Certified of Mangrove Therapy Group

Topic: Power on the Spectrum

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Chapters

1. Meet Ashley And The Root-Cause Lens (00:00:00)

2. Developmental Trauma Beyond Big-T Events (00:01:05)

3. Narcissistic Family Systems And Small Cuts (00:03:33)

4. Attachment Styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized (00:04:30)

5. The Anxious–Avoidant Dance And Repair (00:07:28)

6. Ashley’s Story: The “Good Girl” Role And Codependency (00:09:27)

7. Dating Patterns, Worth, And Caretaking (00:12:35)

8. Client Themes: OCD, Abuse, And Safety (00:15:10)

9. Building Security: EMDR, Timelines, And Themes (00:17:20)

10. Corrective Experiences And Therapeutic Boundaries (00:21:12)

11. Avoidant Subtypes: Fearful vs Dismissive (00:24:00)

12. Inside Anxious Attachment And Abandonment (00:27:04)

13. Becoming More Secure: Self-Responsibility (00:30:20)

14. Rewiring: EMDR Plus Real-Time Regulation (00:33:10)

15. Core Beliefs, Reparenting, And CBT (00:36:40)

16. Choose Your Validators Wisely (00:40:05)

17. Therapy As Lifelong Growth, Not A Sprint (00:43:35)

18. Parenting, Repair, And Modeling Security (00:46:40)

19. Books On Attachment, Trauma, And Healing (00:51:10)

20. Where To Find Mangrove Therapy (00:55:40)

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