A mature spiritual seeker recognizes that security, pleasures, and ethics cannot provide permanent fulfillment, while maintaining a balanced worldview – neither disenchanted nor viewing the world as terrible. Through life experiences, they develop the humility needed for learning. This pairs with Tapas, which isn't self-punishment but gentle restraint from unhealthy habits, manifesting in refined attitudes (avoiding imposed expectations, assumed intentions, and stereotyping), conscious speech (like reframing “bad vibes” to “I don't feel comfortable”), proper body care (for discovering reality), emotional wisdom (reframing situations for lessons), and balanced self-image (believing in oneself without unhealthy pride) – all serving to develop a mind that can connect to Ishvara (God).

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