Ready to EXIT Your Insecure Era? 🖤✨

10 Things I would NOT Do Anymore as the Secure, Best Version of Myself

(bye bye Anxious Attachment - HELLO Secure Attachment)

In this episode of The Anxious to Secure Podcast, I’m sharing the TOP 10 things I used to do when I was stuck in anxious attachment mode 😩... that I no longer do as the secure, grounded, high-self-worth version of me.

These are the patterns I’ve let go of ✨
Because feeling safe in love starts with YOU. 🧠📓

▶️ Whether you're constantly questioning your worth after a text...
▶️ Or staying in "situationships" hoping they'll magically turn into something real...
▶️ Or bending your needs to feel "easygoing" just to keep the peace...

This episode is a WAKE-UP CALL 🛎 and a loving ✨pep talk✨ in one.

You'll hear:

• Real signs of secure attachment in everyday life 🖤

• 10 habits I had to UNLEARN to heal my anxious attachment ✂️

• Micro-examples of how insecurity shows up (and how to shift it) 🧠

• The deeper WHY behind each thing I stopped doing — so you can rewire your brain + protect your peace

💭 If you’re tired of chasing crumbs, falling for unavailable people, or abandoning your needs just to feel “chosen” — this one’s for you.

You’ll learn how each behavior connects to one of the 6 Core Areas of Secure Love: ✨ Emotional Safety
✨ Self-Esteem + Confidence
✨ Interdependency
✨ Assertive Self-Expression
✨ Emotional Mastery
✨ Inner Calm

Because healing anxious attachment isn't about becoming someone new...
It's about becoming MORE of the secure, powerful, peaceful version of YOU.

🎧 Tune in now + start embodying the love you truly deserve

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Ready to EXIT Your Insecure Era? Introduction
00:37 Signs THIS episode is for YOU (and are Anxious Attached)
01:09 How I healed my Anxious Attachment
02:56 10 Things I absolutely will NOT do anymore as the secure Version of myself
03:10 01 I Won't Chase Emotionally Unavailable People
05:43 02 I Won't Convince Others of My Worth
09:11 03 I Won't Ignore Major Value Mismatches
12:01 BONUS: I Won't Obsess Over Texts ANYMORE
13:56 04 I Won't Abandon Boundaries and lose Self Respect
16:54 05 I Won't Put My Needs Last to Keep the Peace.
18:03 06. I Won't Take Responsibility for Their Emotional World
20:23 07. I Won't Over-function to Prove I'm Worth Staying For
21:47 08. I Won't Let My Triggers Choose for Me.
22:43 09. I Won't Chase for Validation. I Chase Myself Now.
23:45 10. I Won't Make Their Inconsistency Mean I'm Not Enough
25:52 Never forget THIS: