🖤 WHEN HE DOESN’T TEXT BACK... (it's NOT about him. You DON'T need his reassurance.)🖤

If your stomach drops every time he leaves you on read…
If your brain screams “he’s pulling away” when there’s no reply…

This episode will help you calm your nervous system, shift your beliefs, and stop spiraling when he doesn’t text back.

You’ll get actual TOOLS — not just “go for a walk” 🙄 — and learn how to rewire your response to texting anxiety from the inside out.

This isn’t about pretending you don’t care.
It’s about learning to feel SAFE even when your phone is silent.

✨💭👀 Whether it’s been 24 hours, a full day, or just a few minutes, your anxious brain is probably filling in the blanks with fear:
➞ Why hasn’t he replied?
➞ Did I say something wrong?
➞ Is he over me?

I GOT YOU. Let’s untangle that.
This is your full breakdown of why texting anxiety happens —

and how to feel calmer, more grounded, and secure AF 💪🏽🖤

🖤 Grab my mini-course

"Stop Obsessing Over Texts in 21 Days or Less" —

It's packed with tools to calm your anxious brain &

finally stop spiralling after every “seen” or emoji reply.

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🖤 FREE Attachment LIBRARY

(worksheets, prompts, quizzes and more)

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♥️ YOUTUBE:

(4 ways How to DETACH emotionally)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLi57Sgd3nE&t=1567s

♥️ Anxious to Secure PLAYLIST

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLkaamihHgLaGB8Cui2BEQqnZDO5jK2GYf&si=MZVdY40W00Rgqcht

🖤 Attachment Style QUIZ

https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz

🖤 How to Stop OVERTHINKING Your Relationship in 4 Steps (With Your Avoidant Partner)

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/overthinkingcourse

📺 CHAPTERS
00:00 Understanding Text Anxiety
01:47 The Roots of Anxious Attachment
03:08 Visualisation of the SECURE SELF: WHY it works
06:13 TRY THIS EXERCISE:
06:40 Anxious attachment behaviors to AVOID
08:48 Free Resources: The ATTACHMENT LIBRARY
09:21 Do this when they don't reply to your text: secure behaviors
09:59 The Secret of building SELF-TRUST
12:57 Stop OBSESSING over TEXTs in 21 DAYS or less
13:54 F.A.R.E. FRAMEWORK to rewire your Anxious Beliefs
17:02 Exposure Therapy for Anxious Attachment: Step-by-Step
17:18 SET UP your phone for success
18:37 Exposure Therapy for Dating Anxiety
21:03 Gradual Exposure Therapy for Relationships
23:42 Hacks to reduce phone-dopamine addiction
25:37 Your 8-Step Action PLAN for Text Anxiety
28:45 Final Takeaway

✨ What You’ll Learn (And Actually Use)

➞ Why a slow reply triggers PANIC in anxious attachment — and how that pain is tied to abandonment wiring in your nervous system
➞ The exact thoughts that fuel texting anxiety (like “he’s over me” or “I ruined it”) — and how to challenge them with your F.A.R.E. framework 🧠
➞ How to pause instead of spiraling — with one powerful visualization tool that builds safety in your body ✨
➞ What anxious behaviors to AVOID (like rereading the thread 50x, sending more texts, or jumping to worst-case thinking)
➞ The REAL difference between a red flag 🚩 and an attachment trigger — especially when he doesn’t text for 24+ hours
➞ Why ignoring him back doesn’t make you more secure — and what to do instead that ACTUALLY shifts your power back 🖤
➞ How to soothe your obsession with your phone 📱 and break the dopamine loop that’s keeping you hooked on the next reply
➞ What a secure woman might say to herself when she doesn’t get a text back — and how YOU can practice that mindset, too 💪🏽
➞ Why “giving him space” isn’t about freezing yourself out or pretending you don’t care — it’s about making space INSIDE you
➞ How to respond to emotional silence without losing your voice — aligned options that honor your feelings without chasing
➞ What to do when your body wants to panic but you know texting won’t fix it — try the 8-step calm plan I walk you through
➞ How to use gradual exposure to build nervous system tolerance to texting silence (without ghosting your own needs)
➞ Tools to rewire your thoughts and behaviors in the moment — so you can stop obsessing over texts and reclaim your calm 🧠

📓✨ BONUS TOOL: Your 8-Step Action Plan
Use this anytime you’re spiraling about a text ⬇

1. BREATHE – Inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4

2. FIND THE THOUGHT – “He’s pulling away,” “I’m too much.”

3. ASK QUESTIONS – Is this FACT or just FEAR?

4. REFRAME + ECHO – “This is an old wound.”

5. VISUALIZE – Calm, confident, no urge to reply

6. GRADUAL EXPOSURE – Sit with the discomfort for 15 mins

7. REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY – “Am I letting this text control my whole life?”

8. BUILD EVIDENCE – “I’ve survived worse than this”

🧠 This episode will help you feel less crazy, less desperate, and WAY more in control the next time you feel that panicky texting spiral.

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DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.

Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.