The Unexpected Solution to an Unusual Marriage Problem

Hey folks, Earnest Mann here. Today, I'm tackling one of the most bizarre relationship stories I’ve ever received. Kelly wrote to me about her husband's obsession with JonBenét Ramsey—a fixation that started back in 1996 and escalated into a full-blown shrine in his office. If that wasn't strange enough, she also has a major issue with his excessive flatulence.

Understanding the Real Issue Behind These Problems

Let’s be real: one of these problems is significantly bigger than the other. A nearly 30-year-long fixation on a murdered child is beyond creepy, and frankly, I would have recommended a psychological evaluation long ago. The gas problem, on the other hand, is more common than you'd think. Science has shown that men tend to be gassier due to anxiety, especially around sex and reproductive stress. It’s a biological response that stems from the ancient need to stay alert after intercourse to protect against competing males. So no, it’s not just your husband being inconsiderate—it’s hardwired in.

The Best Solution? Living Apart

Kelly, here’s the truth: you don’t necessarily need a divorce, but you do need to live apart. Separate living spaces—whether in different apartments or separate areas of a large home—can significantly improve your happiness. Society romanticizes the idea of elderly couples walking arm-in-arm, but for every successful lifelong relationship, there are millions of bitter divorces.

A Classic Car Analogy: Not Every Marriage Lasts

Think of relationships like classic cars. We admire vintage beauties like a 1957 Chevy, but the truth is, most didn’t survive the years—they were wrecked, abandoned, or scrapped. The same applies to relationships. Some last, most don’t. The best thing you can do is create a setup that works for you, even if it doesn’t fit traditional expectations.

That’s it for today, folks. Until next time, I’m Earnest, and I usually always am.

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