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A struggle that comes up for pretty much everyone, but isn’t talked about NEARLY enough in this space? Body dysmorphia.
Yep, this one hits DEEP, and is so, so real. It shows up in quiet moments, fitting rooms, mirror reflections, and even when you’re crushing your fitness goals.
I’ve felt it, my clients feel it, and I KNOW you do too. Most of us are walking around with some version of it, whether we say it out loud or not.
This episode was sparked by a conversation with my client Julie (who’s been KILLIN’ IT), and a reel that broke me wide open (the creator is linked below). I realized how often we think we’ll feel “better” when we reach our goal, but even then, we still pick ourselves apart.
Even after we have incredible, life-changing results on our fitness journeys, we’re STILL our biggest critics. Body dysmorphia doesn’t *magically* go away, just because you fit into a smaller pair of jeans.
If you’ve ever reached a goal, only to find new insecurities waiting for you, this episode is for you. You’re not broken, and you’re definitely NOT alone!!
In this episode, we cover:
- Why unf*cking your fitness goes way beyond macros & workouts
- How social media feeds body image struggles
- Julie’s powerful transformation + why she’s still her own worst critic
- Why always wanting to “do more” in fitness, parenting, or life isn’t a bad thing
- Why body dysmorphia can actually get worse, the fitter you get
- Practical ways to combat body dysmorphia on your journey
- Understanding that reaching your “goal body” isn’t the finish line, because you’ve got to maintain it
- Why compliments are rare (especially IRL) + why you don’t need them
- The real flex of building self-confidence, self-love, and owning your imperfections
Links/Resources:
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- Connect with me on Instagram @kristycastillofit and @unfuckyourfitnesspodcast so we can keep this conversation going-be sure to tag me in your posts and stories!
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Chapters
1. Introduction to Body Dysmorphia (00:00:00)
2. Client Julie's Transformation Story (00:05:29)
3. Never Feeling Completely Satisfied (00:11:42)
4. Comparing Ourselves to Others (00:17:37)
5. Facing Criticism Instead of Compliments (00:23:00)
6. Self-Love and Final Thoughts (00:30:44)
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