Unlearning Parenting: Divorce Made Me A Single Parent... Now What?
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Juanita shares her journey as a single mother parenting her now 18-year-old daughter from age four, offering wisdom on co-parenting, building resilience, and evolving from teacher to coach.
• Transitioning from a two-parent household to single parenting requires choosing trust with both the co-parent and eventually the child
• The shift from teaching to coaching should happen earlier than most parents realize—around 8-9 years old in today's digital world
• Technology management requires open communication rather than excessive monitoring or restrictions
• Children need to experience hard things to build resilience—protecting them from struggle prevents growth
• Parents must recognize the difference between protecting from harm versus protecting from challenge
• Our children often reflect our own behaviors, offering opportunities for personal growth and self-reflection
• Allow your co-parent to parent in their own way—different doesn't mean wrong
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Chapters
1. Unlearning Parenting: Divorce Made Me A Single Parent... Now What? (00:00:00)
2. Introduction to Single Parenting Journey (00:00:05)
3. Navigating Divorce with Young Children (00:10:57)
4. Choosing Trust Between Co-Parents (00:22:05)
5. Managing Technology as a Single Parent (00:33:46)
6. Teaching vs. Coaching Your Child (00:49:18)
7. Building Resilience in Today's Generation (01:01:48)
8. Learning from Your Child's Mirror (01:12:53)
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