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The Fine Line Between Support and Emotional Burden
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As parents, we want to raise strong, resilient kids—but sometimes, without realizing it, we lean on them in ways that can be damaging. In this episode, we’re tackling the tough but crucial topic of parentification, enmeshment, and emotional incest—when kids are put in roles they were never meant to fill.
We break down:
- How to recognize if you're unintentionally placing emotional burdens on your child
- What’s healthy honesty with kids vs. oversharing your adult problems
- The long-term impact of making kids responsible for adult emotions
- How to foster emotional security without making them your therapist or support system
We discuss our own experience growing up in this dynamic, and we discuss practical ways to break the cycle—because once you see it, you can change it. This isn't about shame; it's about building awareness and making sure our kids get to be kids.
If you’ve ever wondered, Am I putting too much on my child?—this episode is for you.
Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!
On the web:
www.twfo.com
Online Course:
www.independentlystrong.com
Use code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!
Soberlink Device:
www.soberlink.com/wheels
Check out our blog:
https://twfo.com/blog
Follow us on TikTok:
https://tiktok.com/@twfo_couple
Follow us on Instagram:
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Follow us on Facebook:
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Follow us on YouTube:
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Find Taylor Counseling Group:
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Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:
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194 episodes
Manage episode 467408123 series 3399874
Have an episode suggestion? Text us!
As parents, we want to raise strong, resilient kids—but sometimes, without realizing it, we lean on them in ways that can be damaging. In this episode, we’re tackling the tough but crucial topic of parentification, enmeshment, and emotional incest—when kids are put in roles they were never meant to fill.
We break down:
- How to recognize if you're unintentionally placing emotional burdens on your child
- What’s healthy honesty with kids vs. oversharing your adult problems
- The long-term impact of making kids responsible for adult emotions
- How to foster emotional security without making them your therapist or support system
We discuss our own experience growing up in this dynamic, and we discuss practical ways to break the cycle—because once you see it, you can change it. This isn't about shame; it's about building awareness and making sure our kids get to be kids.
If you’ve ever wondered, Am I putting too much on my child?—this episode is for you.
Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!
On the web:
www.twfo.com
Online Course:
www.independentlystrong.com
Use code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!
Soberlink Device:
www.soberlink.com/wheels
Check out our blog:
https://twfo.com/blog
Follow us on TikTok:
https://tiktok.com/@twfo_couple
Follow us on Instagram:
https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/
Follow us on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCouple
Follow us on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_couple
Find Taylor Counseling Group:
https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/
Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:
Donate Here
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