S6E15: Parts are not Problems: An IFS Deep Dive with Andrea Tessier - Part 1
Wild + (finally fcking) Free: Real, Raw Stories of the Disruptors, Rebels + Revolutionaries
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In this juicy AF episode, I sit down with the absolute gem of a human, Andrea Tessier – IFS practitioner, master coach, intuitive powerhouse, and the woman who helps people trust themselves for a living.
We go deep into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – what it is, how it works, and why your so-called “problem parts” are actually the ones loving the hardest on you.
This conversation is equal parts practical, magical, identity-shifting, and business-changing.
If you’ve ever wondered why you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel stuck, this one's for you.
What We Dive Into
- What IFS actually is (spoiler: there are NO bad parts)
- Why certain patterns in business feel like sabotage… but aren’t
- The truth about striver parts, perfectionists, procrastinators, rebels, people-pleasers, over-responsibility, and other familiar inner characters
- What “Self with a capital S” feels like – and why it’s the ONLY place you can sustainably run a business from
- How “parts running your business” creates burnout, codependency, resentment, or confusion
- How manager parts + firefighter parts work (and why your binge-eating, dissociation, scrolling, or burnout patterns aren’t moral failures)
- The difference between fear-driven business and freedom-driven business
- Why traditional coaching often becomes “manager-to-manager” instead of soul-to-soul
- Why so much online marketing feels icky – and the IFS lens that explains it perfectly
- How to make business decisions, marketing, sales, and boundaries from Self-energy
- A big conversation about AI, urgency marketing, and integrity in the current coaching industry
Andrea Tessier, M.Ed. is a Master Life Coach and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) Practitioner who helps visionary leaders and entrepreneurs cultivate deep self-trust and lead from within. Through her signature blend of psychology, spirituality, and embodied leadership, Andrea guides clients to move beyond perfectionism, over-responsibility, and self-doubt—so they can create lives and businesses rooted in freedom, purpose, and wholeness. Her work bridges the inner and outer worlds, helping people reconnect with their calm, wise Self and lead their lives with clarity, courage, and confidence.
Resources mentioned:
IFS Parts Work & Self-Trust Starter Kit - Andrea’s Free IFS Starter Kit - This is the freebie she mentioned inside the episode – and it’s SO GOOD.
What’s Inside
- Why self-trust feels hard (hint: it’s never willpower)
- The 3-step IFS process: Notice → Acknowledge → Befriend
- Journaling prompts to help you hear your inner wisdom
- A guided practice to meet your parts with compassion instead of shame
- A totally new way to understand the “per
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