Overgiving Isn’t Love — It’s Self-Abandonment in Disguise

This episode explores how trauma can make us overgive in relationships — and how to stop. Ilja shares honest stories of self-abandonment, intimacy, and learning to receive love without losing yourself. Plus, how to steady your mind, hold boundaries, and recognise your worth beyond how much you do.
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