Dr. Kiki Fehling, a super feeler psychologist, author, influencer, and super feeler joins the pod to talk all about Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), its accessibility, and the importance of skills for all parts of life.

Kiki shares about their journey learning DBT while training as a psychologist and their desire to develop more accessible DBT-based resources.

Laurie and Kiki also compare notes on their heart issues (Kiki’s heart attack and Laurie’s heart rhythm disorder) and how they used DBT skills to cope through the attacks themselves and the subsequent treatment and recovery.

The conversation also touches on the challenges of traditional DBT resources and the importance that accessibility is improved for people who are neurodiverse, queer or live with disabilities. Kiki shares about their transition from clinical work to creating resources for a wider audience to help meet these accessibility needs.

In this episode we talked about A LOT of things so here’s a linked list of all of it!

Kiki’s books and resources

• Self-Directed DBT Skills: A 3-Month DBT Workbook to Regulate Intense Emotions and Create Lasting Change with Dialectical Behavior Therapy
• DBT Cards for Coping Skills: 125 DBT Skills and Strategies to Find Balance, Joy, and Purpose

Upcoming event feat Laurie and Kiki

• Click here to get tickets to the BPD Society of BC’s Virtual BPD Awareness Day Event that Laurie and Kiki are speaking at on May 8th 2025!

Other DBT Resources we chatted about:

• DBT RU Videos
• DBT for Life Book
• DBT-Informed Art Therapy Book
• The Game of Real Life Game
• The Neurodivergent Friendly Workbook of DBT Skills Book
• DBT Skills: Radical Acceptance Podcast Episode

Other resources:

• Rest Is Resistance Book
• Laziness Does Not Exist Book
• Now Matters Now Website

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