What does heartbreak look like when it spans continents? Wedding industry veteran Ava takes us on a journey through her "global heartbreak" experiences across London, Paris, Amsterdam, and Australia, revealing how each relationship ending taught her something valuable about love and herself.
From crying for two months straight after an early breakup to developing healthier coping mechanisms as she matured, Ava's evolution offers a roadmap for anyone navigating relationship grief. "Now my life is busier," she explains. "It's like you've got two days, girl, you need to cry this out and then get back into all the positive things." Yet she emphasizes the importance of truly feeling your emotions rather than masking them with distractions.
Particularly fascinating is Ava's perspective on long-distance love, having attempted seven international relationships. She shares the raw reality of breaking up on a one-year anniversary while living in her partner's home abroad, unable to speak the local language, then cohabitating with him for another month afterward. These situations create unique challenges that test emotional resilience in profound ways.
At the heart of Ava's experiences lies a powerful shift from creating fantasy relationships to seeking authentic connections. In her twenties, she constructed idealized versions of partners, experiencing "the feeling of losing something that never existed" when these relationships ended. Through self-reflection and growth, she learned to build connections based on mutual respect and genuine admiration.
Whether you're healing from heartbreak or simply curious about relationship dynamics, this conversation offers practical wisdom about processing grief, breaking unhealthy patterns, and remaining open to love despite past disappointments. As Ava beautifully puts it, "Grief is pain because it's love that has nowhere to go."

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