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Why does something as simple as saying “no” feel so unbearably hard? Why does guilt creep in even when you know you're doing what’s right for you?
In this episode of The Happya Life, Clare Deacon breaks down the nervous system science and emotional truth behind guilt after boundaries and why that guilt doesn’t mean you’re wrong. It means you’re healing.
You’ll learn:

  • Why guilt isn’t a moral compass, it’s a trauma-informed response
  • How your early conditioning around “being good” shapes your reactions now
  • The real reason boundaries feel emotionally loaded
  • What a “boundary hangover” is and how to move through it with compassion
  • Somatic signals your body sends when you abandon yourself
  • Why Boundaries Reset isn’t about learning what to say — it’s about building internal permission to say it

This episode is for the women learning to choose themselves — not selfishly, but sacredly.
🔗 Mentioned:
Free guide: Why You Keep Saying Yes When You Mean No → happyacoach.com/boundaries
Explore boundaries resources → happyacoach.com/explore/boundaries
Complimentary chat with Clare → happyacoach.com/chat

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