In this insightful conversation, Dr. Hillary Hurst Bush discusses her collaboration with Dr. Ellen Braaten on the Motivation Mindset Workbook, an extension of the book Bright Kids Who Couldn't Care Less. The discussion delves into the concepts of aptitude, pleasure, and practice, exploring how these elements interact to influence motivation in children and teens. Dr. Bush shares personal anecdotes and professional insights, emphasizing the importance of understanding individual motivations and the role of family and societal expectations.

Takeaways

• Motivation is not a fixed trait; it ebbs and flows.
• Aptitude, pleasure, and practice are interconnected.
• The Motivation Mindset Workbook aims to make motivation accessible.
• Understanding individual motivations is crucial for growth.
• Family and societal expectations can impact motivation.
• Pleasure should be genuine and not just an escape.
• Overscheduling can hinder exploration and motivation.
• Mismatch in expectations can be mistaken for lack of motivation.
• Values and gratitude can guide motivation and pleasure.
• Motivation is fluid and can change over time.

Sound bites

Motivation is not a fixed trait. Aptitude is a muscle, not fixed. Pleasure should be genuine. Mismatch, not lack of motivation. Values guide motivation and pleasure. Motivation is fluid and changeable. Family expectations impact motivation. Understanding motivations is crucial. Overscheduling hinders motivation. Motivation Mindset Workbook insights.

Chapters:

00:00:00 - Introduction to Motivation Mindset*

An overview of the Motivation Mindset Workbook

00:03:00 - Aptitude, Pleasure, and Practice

Exploring the core concepts that drive motivation in children and teens.

00:09:00 - Personal Insights and Experiences

Dr. Bush shares personal stories and professional insights on motivation.

00:15:00 - Family and Societal Expectations

Discussing the impact of family and societal pressures on motivation.

00:21:00 - The Fluidity of Motivation

Understanding how motivation can change and adapt over time.

Resources Mentioned:

Range- David Epstein

Bright Kids Who Couldn't Care Less- Ellen Braaten

The Motivation Mindset Workbook- Ellen Braaten & Hillary Hurst Bush

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