Welcome to Coffee with M & J, where we—Mandy and Jaime—navigate the ups and downs of life as moms, entrepreneurs, and community builders. Our stories aren’t always easy, but we’re committed to living life forward and reaching our fullest potential. Join us as we share authentic experiences, hard truths, and practical tips on entrepreneurship, social media, life, relationships, and habits. Whether you’re sipping coffee or your favorite beverage, we invite you on this adventure with us. Our go ...
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Mandy And Jaime Podcasts
The BCEN and Friends podcast is an opportunity to have interesting conversations about learning with a range of thought leaders, BCEN certification holders, and industry professionals - and most importantly to create value and insight for you - our professional nurses across the emergency spectrum. We hope you find our discussions interesting, informative, sometimes funny, sometimes serious - but always valuable.
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We start this episode with almost-empty coffee cups and Jaime singing (because... why not?). But don’t be fooled by the playful start, this one gets real, fast. As we step into the empty-nest phase, or see it coming around the corner, we’re asking the honest questions: Have we been too good as moms? Are our kids truly ready to take care of themselv…
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Scrub Circle: Breaking the silence to heal (Amy Stevenson S6E12)
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39:57In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Amy Stevenson. Amy Stevenson is a seasoned emergency nursing professional with a dynamic background spanning roles as an EMT, 911 dispatcher, ER/ICU nurse, and flight nurse. She earned her BSN in 2012 and her MSN as a Family Nurse Practitioner in 2020 from South College, where she…
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You Are Not Designed to Be Liked by Everyone
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32:12On today’s adventure of Coffee with M and J, we start off with Jaime feeling peaceful and grounded… and Mandy feeling like she’s caught in a tornado. We’re both in busy seasons of life for totally different reasons — and as usual, it doesn’t take long for us to go off the rails. We start with public water preferences (yes, really), touch on divine …
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Featuring Mastering Midlife with Heidi Gustafson
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52:59On today’s adventure of Coffee with M and J, we sit down with the incredible Heidi Gustafson — certified hypnotist, mindset coach, YouTuber, and host of the Mastering Midlife with Heidi podcast. From divorce and getting fired, to letting go of people-pleasing and perfectionism, Heidi’s story is a powerful reminder that sometimes the “trucks” that h…
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The little things that sneak up on you (Erin Montgomery S6E11)
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55:11In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Erin Montgomery. Currently serving as a transport RN for Riley Hospital for Children's pediatric/neonatal specialty team in Indianapolis, Erin is passionate about improving pediatric emergency care through education and outreach. She played a key role in establishing the Pediatric…
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This episode lives up to its name! We went way off the rails—in the best possible way. We dive into Mandy’s jam-packed schedule, get the scoop on a recent trip (with a few surprise gems), and chat about everything from time blocking and travel to social media and looming deadlines. Expect more than one valuable tip, lots of laughter, and plenty of …
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Buckle up, friends—a lot is flying around in this one. We dive deep into creative blocks—what causes them, how we sometimes move through them (because let's be honest, it’s not always graceful), and why forcing creativity just doesn’t work. From surprise Zoom balloons 🎈 to real talk about prioritizing your to-do list, using fun planners, and giving…
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Life moves pretty fast-so does certification (Amy Grand S6E10)
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45:27In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Amy Grand. Amy Grand is a passionate credentialing specialist with over 20 years of experience in high-stakes licensure and certification exams. In her role at BCEN, Amy leads the development and oversight of six national nursing specialty certifications, supporting more than 60,0…
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Organize Your Life & Go for It with Kerry Pearce
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45:16Today we welcome the amazing Kerry Pearce, owner of Luxxe Organizing and Budaful Sents. From her collection of coffee mugs from travels to her take on the perfect coffee temperature, this episode is full of warmth, inspiration, and practical gems. We dive into how our differences make us beautifully unique, why mental and physical clutter are more …
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We start this episode laughing and go off the rails before we even share what’s in our cups! But once we dive in, we explore Jaime’s deep decluttering journey—along with the wild, unexpected stories behind what she’s finding. We talk about overwhelm, frustration, and how to turn them into action. Start small! This episode is tough to wrap up becaus…
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The secret is to adjust your sails (Harriet Hawkins S6E9)
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44:42In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Harriet Hawkins Harriet Hawkins is a nurse whose remarkable career in healthcare spans over five decades. Harriet began her journey in psychiatry in 1969 before moving into adult critical care and emergency medicine. In 1982, she joined Children's Memorial Hospital in Chicago—now …
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In this season of wellness, we’re off to the races with a deep and passionate conversation about what truly matters. Life is short—are you living it fully? In this episode, we break down fear, small steps, and the reality that your next move might not look like what you expected—but trust that everything is happening exactly as it’s supposed to. We…
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Now “off the rails” might just be our thing—and honestly, we kind of love it. This episode was a completely unexpected (in the best way), and you’ll want to listen to the whole thing—we drop some really exciting news. We are shifting and getting rid of seasons. Moving forward, we will drop weekly episodes with natural breaks, when we need them—with…
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Building a legacy one day at a time (Kathy Mace S6E8)
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39:22In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Kathy Mace. With over four decades of experience in emergency nursing, Kathy Mace brings a wealth of knowledge and dedication to supporting ED and burn nurses. Beginning her career as a nurse extern in 1976, she spent 33 years in the emergency department, working both at the bedsi…
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This season, we’re diving into wellness—a vast topic with endless possibilities. And today, we’re kicking things off with a truly inspiring guest: Renee Barnes, the most impressive and vibrant 87-year-old we’ve ever met! Renee is an artist, illustrator, author, designer, mom, grandmother, great-grandmother, and so much more. She’s full of wisdom, h…
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Welcome to Season 3: Wellness from Every Angle!
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29:37On today’s adventure of Coffee with M and J, we immediately go off the rails, followed by a seriously deep conversation. We do our best to share our vision for Season 3—where we’re focusing on wellness from every possible angle. It’s a broad topic, we know, but trust us, we’re diving in. This season, we will have fewer guests, but the ones we’ve li…
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Living life by a compass, not a clock (Steven Talbot S6E7)
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40:27In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Steven Talbot. Steven Talbot is a seasoned healthcare leader with 26 years of experience in emergency, trauma, flight nursing, administration, education, and paramedicine. As a Professional Practice Leader at Houston Methodist Willowbrook, he oversees the Emergency and Neuroscienc…
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Buckle up, friends—this one jumps off the rails FAST! In today’s episode, we kick things off with an extra-caffeinated Mandy and take a wild ride through all the incredible guests from Season 2. From unexpected mishaps (balls to the face, anyone?) to powerful conversations on community-building, giving back, and real connection, this season had it …
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This week, we sit down with Allen Deaver—an Air Force veteran, husband, father, granddad, dog dad, Mason, and community builder. Alan is deeply involved in organizations like the Masonic Lodge, Kyle VFW, Kyle and Buda Chamber, and Hays County Networking Group. We talk veterans, service, and the power of community. Alan has been a Mason for 30 years…
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Gratitude in every line I've ever read (Jacki Roland S6E6)
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36:46In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Jacki Roland. Jacki Roland is an experienced emergency and trauma nurse with over 13 years of expertise in caring for critically injured patients. She serves as a clinical nurse educator in a Level 1 academic trauma and burn center in Denver and is part of the instructor cadre at …
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On today’s episode of Coffee with M and J, we are absolutely delighted to welcome Stephanie Swan! A devoted wife and mother, Stephanie spent eight years working in ministry and is currently making a difference with the incredible nonprofit Austin Angels. She loves spending time with her family, her dogs, and creating beautiful things that fill her …
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We love our guests and have missed these deep conversations—so today, we’re diving into a spicy one! ☕🔥 Jaime is sipping on Embrace The Grind coffee (totally unsponsored, just a shoutout), and we’re exploring the darker side of community. What do you do when a person, place, or event leaves you feeling drained? Community can serve us, but it can al…
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A national treasure in injury prevention (Courtney Edwards S6E5)
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38:44In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Courtney Edwards Courtney Edwards is the Director of Trauma Community Outreach & BioTel EMS at Parkland Health in Dallas, Texas. Courtney leads injury prevention and outreach programs, working to improve EMS services for over 2.4 million people in the Dallas area. She supports 14 …
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On today’s episode of Coffee with M and J! We have the pleasure of sitting down with Dane Aziz, the owner of Water 2 Wine Buda and Water 2 Wine USA. He’s an Air Force veteran, a motorcycle enthusiast, a devoted father of two, and a God-loving man who’s passionate about serving his community. In this deep episode, Dane opens up about how tragedy can…
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Community: Featuring Jaime Mattox - You are not alone!
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24:17In this heartfelt solo episode, Jaime asks the hard questions: Why do we hide when we need community the most? Why don’t we ask for help? Why do we isolate when we’re struggling? Jaime opens up about facing difficult times alone, sharing the toll it takes on both the mind and body. She explores how isolation can deepen trauma and stop us from livin…
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A song of flight and poisons (Zach Kermitz S6E4)
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45:29In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN friend, Zach Kermitz. Zach began his career in collegiate EMS with the Florida State University Medical Response Unit, before moving on to rural EMS in northeastern North Carolina. After earning his BSN, he honed his skills in the Emergency Department, Intensive Care, and ground Critical …
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Community Featuring Dagan Martinez-Varges
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55:51We’re thrilled to welcome Dagan Martinez-Vargas—a published author, entrepreneur, Gold-Level Toastmaster, husband, father of two boys, and proud owner of a dog and a chicken. In this episode, we start with Dagan’s Toastmasters journey and quickly dive into his fascinating experience as “the mayor of Austin’s nightlife.” He shares how he transformed…
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Community: Featuring Mandy Hedrick- The Power of Community
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18:19In this heartfelt solo episode, Mandy dives into the profound impact community has on our lives, the good, the challenging, and everything in between. From childhood experiences that shaped her perspective to the incredible connections, formed as an adult, Mandy shares personal stories and actionable insights on building meaningful relationships. W…
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Start doing what you're meant to do (Reginald Santiago S6E3)
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34:32In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Reginald “Reggie” Santiago. Reginald Santiago is an inpatient care coordinator and case manager at Duke University Hospital’s Raleigh campus. Over the past 30 years in healthcare, he has served in roles as a paramedic, adjunct paramedic instructor, tactical medical instructor, and…
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On today’s episode of Coffee with M and J, we chat with Terry Lee—a financial planner, community builder, and family man who knows the power of connection. Whether you’re saving for college, buying a home, or planning for retirement, Terry shares his journey, insights, and the importance of work-life balance. We explore how men can benefit from com…
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On today's episode of Coffee with M and J, we are thrilled to welcome the inspiring Jen Baker. From her extensive coffee order to her passion for personal growth & development, and community, this conversation has something for everyone. This season, we are diving deep into the theme of community, and Jen brings valuable insights to the table. She …
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Courage is fear you ignore (Jordan McAdam S6E2)
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27:38In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Jordan McAdam. Jordan McAdam is an emergency room nurse with nearly a decade of experience, currently serving as the Nurse Educator at the Northern Navajo Medical Center in Shiprock, New Mexico. As the Pediatric Emergency Care Coordinator, Jordan has been instrumental in enhancing…
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In today’s episode of Coffee with M and J, we’re thrilled to welcome the amazing Kimberly Shoemaker! A proud Texan, wife, mother of four, grandmother to an adorable little cowboy, and the queen of networking and community-building, Kim brings her passion and expertise to the mic. Kim shares her first encounter with the power of community and dives …
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On today’s episode of Coffee with M and J, we continue our deep dive into all things community. After everything we learned in Season 1, we found ourselves asking, “How can we use this platform for the greater good?” Community has the power to lift us up, give us the push we need, and bring us together. We feel called to build this podcast into a t…
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Compassion is a universal language (Marvin Delfin S6E1)
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48:37In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Marvin Delfin. Marvin is an experienced nurse from Zamboanga, Philippines, with nearly 20 years of global experience in countries like the UAE, Brazil, the US, and Qatar. He holds eight national nursing certifications and two master's degrees, demonstrating his commitment to conti…
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Welcome back to Coffee with M and J! Season 2 is here, and we’re diving into the heart of what makes life meaningful: community. This season, we’re exploring the power of connection—what community means to us, how it evolves through different phases of life, and the beautiful (and sometimes tricky) process of merging communities. From supporting lo…
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Welcome Back to Our Final Bonus Episode of 2024! Join us for a relaxed and heartfelt conversation as we dive into topics like preparing for graduation, navigating life after the kids grow up, embracing the holiday season, and the transformations that come with life’s many changes. Season Two launches in January 2024 and will focus on everything com…
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S1 E10 Bonus 2 Holiday Traditions & Triggers
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31:39In this episode, we dive into the ups and downs of holiday traditions, and the stress that often comes with them. From heartwarming memories, to moments of frustration we are exploring how to embrace the season while managing those inevitable triggers. Whether you are ordering mowing, standing traditions, or creating new ones, we share ways to buil…
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Season 1 E9 Bonus 1 Finish the Year Strong & Set Youeself up for Success!
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28:59In this special bonus episode, we dive into the power of finishing the year with intention and purpose. Join us as we discuss making that final marketing push, taking consistent steps toward your goals, and gearing up for success in 2025. Are you ready to go all in? We’re here to share tips on building momentum, setting realistic goals, and marketi…
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Certified Leadership: One life influencing another (Janie Schumaker S5E23)
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43:29In this 100th podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend and CEO, Janie Schumaker. Janie Schumaker is a dedicated healthcare professional whose journey began in a nursing home doing laundry. She furthered her education as a certified nursing assistant to LPN and finally obtaining her RN. Janie quickly recognized her passion for the…
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On today’s adventure of Coffee with M and J, we dive into the key takeaways from our first season—lessons we've learned, words we tend to overuse (or say incorrectly!), and why being in action is more important than perfection. This journey has taught us so much about ourselves and the process of creating a podcast. It’s a reminder to never let you…
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Mayor may not be outside the Scope of Nursing (Sean Elwell and Adam Oliver S5E22)
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43:43In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friends, Sean Elwell and Adam Oliver. Sean Elwell is the Senior Director of Emergency Services, Critical Care Transport, and the Pediatric Trauma Center at Nemours Children’s Hospital in Wilmington, Delaware, where he has dedicated over 21 years of service. Starting his career as an EMT, …
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On today’s episode of Coffee with M & J, we take another delightful detour, diving into the importance of celebrating your wins—big or small. In a world where we are taught to be humble, it can be challenging to truly celebrate ourselves. We explore how others' celebrations can sometimes be triggers and why self-love is the key to overcoming this. …
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Simulation Education: Let the wild rumpus begin! (Crystal Bencken S5E21)
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51:10In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Crystal Bencken. Crystal Bencken is a Simulation Education Manager at Atrium Health Carolinas Simulation Center, where she leverages 16 years of experience in emergency nursing and trauma to enhance simulation-based education. Her expertise lies in developing projects that emphasi…
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E6: What’s it's really like to go viral?!?
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27:11On today’s episode of Coffee with M & J, we unpack the reality of viral success—from the initial ‘WoHoo!’ to the potential pitfalls of social media burnout. Going viral can seem like a dream come true, but are you truly ready to handle the physical, mental, and emotional load that comes with it? We discuss how time is your most valuable asset, and …
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Serving up a hot cup of Coffee and Mentoring (Deb Spann S5E20)
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35:25In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Deborah Spann. Deborah Spann is a dedicated Registered Nurse with extensive experience in network development aimed at improving trauma and time-sensitive illness responses across the healthcare system. Currently serving as the Education Coordinator for the Louisiana Emergency Res…
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On today’s episode of Coffee with M & J, we dive deep into the power of authenticity in both business and personal life. We explore what it means to discover and embrace your most authentic self, the importance of letting go of comparison, and the journey to true self-love. Whether you're looking to find your unique voice in your business or reconn…
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Hero Dirt: Collaboration on Emerging Special Pathogens (Adam Sorenson S5E19)
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31:01In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Adam Sorenson. Graduating in 2012 with his BSN, Adam Sorenson began his career as a pediatric nurse before transitioning to a role as a pediatric intensive care nurse. After a few years in the PICU, Adam shifted to working in an adult surgical intensive care unit (SICU) at a Level…
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On today’s adventure on Coffee with M and J, we go off the rails discussing movies and sourdough while sharing our perspectives on how all of our adventures make up our journey. We get to learn to expect the unexpected. Where to find us at: Coffee with M and J on Instagram Coffee with M and J on TikTok MJ Designs and Marketing on Instagram New Soul…
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More than My Hometown: Spotlight on the 2024 Distinguished CFRN Award Winner (Tyler Reeves S5E18)
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33:30In this podcast episode we want to introduce you to our BCEN Friend, Tyler Reeves. Tyler Reeves started his career at Clara Barton Hospital in Great Bend, KS. He advanced from CNA to LPN and then RN, eventually spending a decade there with an initial start in med-surg then moving to the Emergency Department. While working in the ED, Tyler had the o…
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